Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

God won't ask you

Once upon a time two brothers who lived on adjoining farms fell into conflict.

It was the first serious rift in 40 years of farming side by side, sharing machinery, and trading labor and goods as needed without a hitch.

Then the long collaboration fell apart. It began with a small misunderstanding and it grew into a major difference, and finally it exploded into an exchange of bitter words followed by weeks of silence.

One morning there was a knock on John's door. He opened it to find a man with a carpenter's toolbox. "I'm looking for a few days work" he said. "Perhaps you would have a few small jobs here and there I could help with? Could I help you?"


"Yes," said the older brother. "I do have a job for you. Look across the creek at that farm. That's my neighbor, in fact, it's my younger brother.

Last week there was a meadow between us and he took his bulldozer to the river levee and now there is a creek between us. Well, he may have done this to spite me, but I'll go him one better. See that pile of lumber by the barn? I want you to build me a fence - - an 8-foot fence -- so I won't need to see his place or his face anymore."

The carpenter said, "I think I understand the situation. Show me the nails and the post-hole digger and I'll be able to do a job that pleases you."

The older brother had to go to town, so he helped the carpenter get the materials ready and then he was off for the day. The carpenter worked hard all that day measuring, sawing, nailing.

About sunset when the farmer returned, the carpenter had just finished his job.

The farmer's eyes opened wide, his jaw dropped. There was no fence there at all. It was a bridge -- a bridge stretching from one side of the creek to the other! A fine piece of work handrails and all -- and the neighbor, his younger brother, was coming across, his hand outstretched. "You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I've said and done."

The two brothers stood at each end of the bridge, and then they met in the middle, taking each other's hand. They turned to see the carpenter hoist his toolbox on his shoulder.

"No, wait! Stay a few days. I've a lot of other projects for you," said the older brother.

"I'd love to stay on," the carpenter said, "but, I have many more bridges to build."

REMEMBER THIS:
    God won't ask what kind of car you drove, but He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.

    God won't ask the square footage of your house, but He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.

    God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet, but He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.

    God won't ask about your social status; He will ask what kind of class you displayed.

    God won't ask how many material possession you had, but He'll ask if they dictated your life.

    God won't ask what your highest salary was, but He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.

    God won't ask how much overtime you worked, but He'll ask if your overtime work was for yourself or for your family.

    God won't ask how many promotions you received, but He'll ask how you promoted others.

    God won't ask what your job title was, but He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.

    God won't ask what you did to help yourself, but He'll ask what you did to help others.

    God won't ask how many friends you had, but He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.

    God won't ask what you did to protect your rights, but He'll ask what you did to protect the rights of others.

    God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived, but He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.

    God won't ask about the color of your skin, but He'll ask about the content of your character.

    God won't ask how many times your deeds matched your words, but He'll ask how many times they didn't.

    God won't ask why it took you so long to seek Salvation, but He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.
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Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Life is special - Friendship article

Two travelling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family.

The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guest room. Instead the angels were given a small space in the cold basement.

As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied, "Things aren't always what they seem."


The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field. The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen? The first man had everything, yet you helped him and the second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die.

"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied. "When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn’t find it."

"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave him the cow instead. Things aren't always what they seem."

Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage. You might not know it until some time later...

Some people come into our lives and quickly go…
Some people become friends and stay awhile...
leaving beautiful footprints on our hearts...
and we are never quite the same because we have made a good friend!!

Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow a mystery.
Today is a gift.
That's why it's called the present!

I think this life is special...live and savour every moment...This is not a dress rehearsal!

Right Now -

  • -somebody is very proud of you.
  • -somebody is thinking of you.
  • -somebody is caring about you.
  • -somebody misses you
  • -somebody wants to talk to you.
  • -somebody wants to be with you.
  • -somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.
  • -somebody is thankful for the support you have provided.
  • -somebody wants to hold your hand.
  • -somebody hopes everything turns out all right.
  • -somebody wants you to be happy.
  • -somebody wants you to find him/her.
  • -somebody is celebrating your successes.
  • -somebody wants to give you a gift.
  • -somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.
  • -somebody hopes you're not too cold, or too hot
  • -somebody wants to hug you.
  • -somebody loves you.
  • -somebody admires your strength.
  • -somebody is thinking of you and smiling.
  • -somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.
  • -somebody wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun.
  • -somebody thinks the world of you.
  • -somebody wants to protect you.
  • -somebody would do anything for you.
  • -somebody wants to be forgiven.
  • -somebody is grateful for your forgiveness.
  • -somebody wants to laugh with you.
  • -somebody remembers you and wishes that you were there.
  • -somebody is praising God for you.
  • -somebody needs to know that your love is unconditional.
  • -somebody wants to tell you how much they care.
  • -somebody wants to share their dreams with you.
  • -somebody wants to hold you in their arms.
  • -somebody wants YOU to hold them in your arms.
  • -somebody treasures your spirit.
  • -somebody wishes they could STOP time because of you.
  • -somebody praises God for your friendship and love.
  • -somebody can't wait to see you.
  • -somebody loves you for who you are.
  • -somebody loves the way you make them feel.
  • -somebody wants to be with you.
  • -somebody wants you to know they are there for you.
  • -somebody's glad that you're his/her friend.
  • -somebody wants to be your friend.
  • -somebody stayed up all night thinking about you.
  • -somebody is wishing that you noticed him/her.
  • -somebody wants to get to know you better.
  • -somebody wants to be near you.
  • -somebody misses your advice/guidance.
  • -somebody has faith in you.
  • -somebody trusts you.
  • -somebody needs you to send them this letter
  • -somebody needs your support.
  • -somebody needs you to have faith in them.
  • -somebody will cry when they read this.
  • -somebody needs you to let them be your friend.
  • -somebody hears a song that reminds them of you.


Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Life is meaningless without Mom

When you came into the world, she held you in her arms.
You thanked her by wailing like a banshee.

When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.

When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.

When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.
You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.


When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons
You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.

When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud

When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!"

When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.

When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.

When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

Those teenage years

When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.
You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

Growing old and gray

When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business."

When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.
You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you."

When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

When you were 24, she met your fiance and asked about your plans for the future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
You thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now."

When you were 40, she called to remind you of an relative's birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder.

"Rock me baby, rock me all night long."
The hand who rocks the cradle...may rock the world".

Let us take a moment of the time just to pay tribute/show appreciation to the person called MOM though some may not say it openly to their mother.

There's no substitute for her.

Cherished every single moment.

Though at times she may not be the best of friends, may not agree to our thoughts, she is still your mother!!!

She will be there for you...to listen to your woes, your bragging, your frustrations, etc.

Ask yourself.....have you put aside enough time for her, to listen to her "blues" of working in the kitchen, her tiredness???

Be tactful, loving and still show her due respect though you may have a different view from hers.

Once gone, only fond memories of the past and also regrets will be left.

DON'T TAKE FOR GRANTED THE THINGS CLOSEST TO YOUR HEART.

LOVE HER MORE THAN U LOVE YOURSELF.
LIFE IS MEANINGLESS WITHOUT HER...

Read also : Your Angel "Mommy"