Showing posts with label learn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label learn. Show all posts

Saturday, July 07, 2007

We have the choice to live

I got this article at my mail box. Nice to shared with you...
This article is meant to be purely inspirational...

READ THIS. LET IT REALLY SINK IN. THEN CHOOSE HOW YOU START YOUR DAY TOMORROW.

Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say: When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"

He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there, telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.


Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?” Michael replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood.

Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes, it is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."

I reflected on what Michael said. Soon thereafter, I left the Tower Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back.

I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied. "If I were any better, I would be twins. Wanna see my scars?” I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon to be born daughter," Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live."

"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?” I asked. Michael continued, "...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the Emergency Room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read `he's a dead man." I knew I needed to take action."

"What did you do?” I asked. "Well there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. "Yes, I replied." The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, "Gravity." Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."

Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.

Attitude, after all, is everything. "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

Wednesday, May 30, 2007

8 Random Facts

I was tagged by Aki Jinn this morning.

The Rules:

  • Players start with 8 random facts about themselves.
  • Those who are tagged should post these rules and their 8 random facts.
  • Players should tag eight other people and notify them that they have been tagged.



8 random facts about me:

  1. My Name is Peter.
  2. I'm just like a boy who live next door.
  3. Every day i'm front of computer, as an IT worker (Computer Programmer, Analys and Networking , handle 4 countries (Indonesia/Singapore/Hongkong/China and later on Bangladesh) as my job at Singaporean Garment and Sweater company but my home base office at Indonesia. That's why i can checked your site any time, even on my overseas duty, and of course on my unoccupied time.
  4. I love to learn a new things, reading book and shared the knowledge.
  5. I always respected to everybody, even you like or unlike me and for me friendship is forever (caused my philosophy is "Don't count the years - count the memories!"
  6. I hate heard politic, racism, religion debate.
  7. I believe in GOD and Only GOD keeps me going.
  8. I like playing badminton, i do this game twice a week, so wanna join with me? ;).

Wow, Now you know a little bit about me. This is fun, so i want to know about you too.

Now for 8 random tags:

Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Believe

I believe, that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I believe, that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself, that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.




I Believe …

That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

















I Believe …

That no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.














I Believe …

That just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
















I Believe …

That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.















I Believe …

That it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
















I Believe …


That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

















I Believe …

That you can keep going, long after you think you can’t.















I Believe …

That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
















I Believe …

That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

















I Believe …

That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.





















I Believe …

That money is a lousy way of keeping score.





















I Believe …


That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

















I Believe …

That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down, will be the ones to help you get back up.













I Believe …

That sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.













I Believe …

That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.










I Believe …

That it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.













I Believe …

That no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn’t stop for your grief.












I Believe …

That just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.











I Believe …

That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.














I Believe …

That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different













I Believe …

That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you.













I Believe …

That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.











I Believe …

That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.











I Believe …

That the people you care about most in life are taken from you much too soon.



















I Believe …

That life is more precious than money will ever be able to be.