Sunday, April 22, 2007

Facing your Problems

The expression and underlying emotions displayed during a conflict may reveal the strength or weakness of the marriage.


Below is a facial expressions, which can reveal true feelings even when words don't.


Surprise
a big smile, with popping eyes, indicates
a positive surprice, Something unexpected
but unpleasant yields the eye-pop only
Either way, a short-lived stated.


Interest
A calm voice and positive body language
learning forward, for example-signal
the genuine article, it's real desire to hear
a partner's opinion. not an attempt to influence.

Anger
The tone is cold or loud, the wording staccato.
But honest anger, an internal state, is different
from contempt, directed at the spouse.
A fake smile, without raised cheeks, may ask anger.



Domineering
A "low and slow" voice often signals that
one partner is trying to force the other to his
or her view. Ranges from lawyerly cross-
examination to blatant threats.


Fear
Outright fear is rare; a lower-grade version-tension-
is a more common. And a wife's tension, if pronounced,
can a predictor for divorce down the road.



Sadness
Passivity and sulking can look like stonewalling
or disengaging a fight, but sad people maintain more
eye contact than stonewallers.



Contempt
If prolonged, this expression is a red alert.
Especially when accompanied by sarcasm
and insults, it suggest a marriage in serious trouble



6 comments:

  1. Yea, you can hide anything but your expressions. :D There are just too many parts of your moving body that can tell-tale what you feel!

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  2. Hmmm...ok, guess me! wink...wink.!

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  3. Hahaha! The faces look so cute! Yep! Facial expression and impression is the FIRST thing that people will see. In fact from the Social Psychology that I studied last time, the most important part of a body are your EYES. The very first contact with people.

    Nice post!

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